As humans, we have the right to embody the lived experience that feels most authentic to us. Sex positivity is a tenet I live by, which includes being able to experience pleasure in all its forms. That means that we should have access to whatever we need to have consensual and safe sex. This includes the autonomy to say "yes" and "no" to what feels right for us, and we don't need to judge or shame other people if what's a "no" for us is a "yes" for them (don't yuck someone's yum). Unwanted pregnancy can bring a lot of anxiety and prevent pleasure-filled experiences. I believe that all people should have the right to choose how to live their experience, and being able to choose what forms of birth control or prevention feel right for them is a part of that. Additionally, being someone who could become pregnant, it is my lived experience to be someone who wants to be able to make whatever choice feels right for me, which means acknowledging that what's right for me may not feel right for you, and we can both hold space for that.