We cannot have freedom if we do not have freedom over our bodies and our choices. As a clinician, my guiding principle is the self-determination and autonomy of my clients. Often, the folks I work with have experienced harmful patterns of power and control in their relationships, and learning to feel safe making choices for themselves is central to our work. Being able to control their career, financial security, health, and whether/when to become a parent is crucial in healing and thriving.